Love by Return of Post
A Poetry Tale about Paul Laurence Dunbar, told by Hello Doggo.
Spring, eighteen ninety-five. In Dayton, Ohio, a young poet opens a Boston magazine and finds a piece by a schoolteacher from New Orleans. Next to it, her photograph.
Her name was Alice Ruth Moore. She was nineteen. He was Paul Laurence Dunbar, twenty-two, and he wrote to her at once.
Now, a man writing to a pretty stranger needs a pretext. His, say those who’ve read the letters, was terribly literary. What did she think, he asked, of using dialect in literature? She answered politely, and a little coolly. Fine, if you have the gift for it. She, for one, did not.
It was enough. Two years of letters followed. In February eighteen ninety-seven, at a farewell party before he sailed for England, he proposed.
Her family disapproved. So on the sixth of March, eighteen ninety-eight, the two young writers married in secret, in New York.
It did not end well. Paul drank, and the drinking turned to violence. Early in nineteen-oh-two he beat Alice so badly she needed hospital treatment. She left him, and never went back. He died of tuberculosis four years later, aged thirty-three. They never divorced. She went on to a long career as a writer and activist, Alice Dunbar-Nelson.
And here’s what’s hard to shake. Around the time those first letters crossed, he published a poem. We wear the mask that grins and lies, it hides our cheeks and shades our eyes.
He meant the face Black Americans had to show a hostile world. Read it now, and you hear the letters too.
Sources
- Alice Ruth Moore’s piece and photograph in the Monthly Review (Boston), April 1895, which prompted Dunbar’s first letter.
- The Dunbar–Moore correspondence, Paul Laurence Dunbar Papers, Ohio History Connection, Columbus, including the opening exchange on dialect.
- The secret marriage in New York, 6 March 1898, the violence of early 1902, and the permanent separation: Eleanor Alexander, Lyrics of Sunshine and Shadow: The Tragic Courtship and Marriage of Paul Laurence Dunbar and Alice Ruth Moore (2001); Jarrett (2022).
- “We Wear the Mask”, Majors and Minors (1895).
Notes
- Dunbar died of tuberculosis in Dayton on 9 February 1906. Alice Dunbar-Nelson’s own account of the marriage survives in her diaries, published as Give Us Each Day (1984).


